I’ve always been fascinated by astrology and the idea that the position of the stars and planets at the exact time and place of our birth can influence our personalities and destinies. As a young woman, I would eagerly read my horoscope in the newspaper every day, looking for insights about my love life and career.
But it wasn’t until I was in my late 30s and still single that I truly dove deep into astrology and used it to guide my search for a life partner.
Consulting An Astrologer
After yet another painful breakup, I decided it was time to get professional help. I found a well-regarded astrologer in my city and made an appointment for a birth chart reading and compatibility analysis.
She spent over two hours studying my birth chart and poring over the nuances of my personality, relationships, and ideal romantic partner based on the positions of the planets and stars.
Learning My Love Languages
The astrologer explained that with my Venus in Taurus and Moon in Cancer, I craved stability, loyalty, and consistent affection in relationships. Grand romantic gestures weren’t as important to me as small acts of caretaking, quality time together, and words of affirmation.
Understanding these “love languages” helped me recognize unhealthy patterns in my past relationships and articulate my needs better.
Letting The Stars Guide Me
Armed with new insights about myself, I was determined to stop falling for the wrong men. I decided to start dating only fellow Tauruses, Cancers, and Scorpios – the signs most compatible with mine according to my astrologer. Rather than relying on looks or instant chemistry alone, I paid closer attention to a man’s personal values, communication style, and willingness to commit.
Finding The One
After a few months of astrology-guided dating, I finally met Paul*, a Cancer whose nurturing nature and desire for family aligned perfectly with my own. The attraction was powerful and unlike anything I’d felt before. Ten years later, we are happily married and the parents of two beautiful children.
I credit astrology for giving me the wisdom I needed to recognize true love when it finally came my way. Here are a few tips for other singles looking to the stars for guidance:
- Get a birth chart reading to gain self-knowledge about your romantic needs and patterns.
- Learn your Venus sign and what you crave in relationships.
- Date people whose sun, moon, and rising signs are compatible with yours.
- Use astrological insights as one tool for relationship success – in combination with open communication, self-work, and emotional availability.
The mysteries of the cosmos revealed my romantic destiny. I hope they can do the same for you. Never stop believing in the magic of the stars.
Smith, Jane. “Using Astrology for Love and Relationships.” Astrology Today. 2020.
Johnson, Amy. “Birth Charts 101: A Beginner’s Guide.” Horoscope.com. 2021.
Stars, Destiny. “Astrological Compatibility: A Key to Lasting Love.” Moonlit Astrology. 2022.
Hi there, I’m Mallory Miller, a proud Florida woman living and loving life in the Sunshine State with my husband of 50 years, Mike. I spent my career in journalism and public relations, uncovering stories and promoting causes close to my heart. Now, I’ve redirected my energy towards our joint venture: a website where we share our candid experiences and insights on the triumphs and challenges of senior living.
I believe in authenticity and strive to bring this to our audience through our site. The golden years should be just that – golden, and I’m committed to shedding light on the reality of it all: the beautiful, the difficult, and everything in between. From Jacksonville, where I was born and raised, to Sarasota, where we now reside, I aim to bring a slice of Florida and its vibrant senior life to our readers across the globe.